It's not time to make a change
Just relax--take it easy
You're still young--that's your fault
There's so much you have to know
Find a girl, settle down
If you want, you can marry
Look at me--I am old
But I'm happy
I was once like you are now
And I know that it's not easy
To become when you've found
Something going on
But take your time--think a lot
Think of everthing you've got
For you will still be here tomorrow
But your dreams may not...
How can I try to explain?
When I do--it turns away again
And it's always been the same
Same old story
From the moment I could talk
I was ordered to listen
Now there's a way, and I know
That I have to go away
I know, I have to go...
It's not time to make a change
Just sit down
and take it slowly
You're still young--that's your fault
There's so much you have to go through
Find a girl, settle down
If you want, you can marry
Look at me--I am old
But I'm happy
All the times, that I've cried
Keeping all the things I knew inside
And it's hard
But it's harder to ignore it
If they were right--I'd agree
But it's them--they know
Not me That I have to go away—Boyzone: Father and Son
小我一岁的堂弟，上个星期为她小儿子摆宴席庆周岁。 紧接着，很多朋友陆陆续续地订婚结婚了。（眼前的你是否也有种"朋友都结婚去了"的感觉呢？呵呵 :P）
今天，有个朋友突然问我，难道想做一辈子的光棍？无奈的我，只好应他，“我gay的。-.-III”。
有时候会想，为什么男大一定要当婚？想法地，女大一定要当嫁？
成家立业——男人一定要走的路？一定要成家，才立业？突然深深赞同，曾经有个友人想我说的话，男生不能先成家，后立业；要先有事业，才有家庭！
有句话说，大学毕业后，就要进入社会
有句话说，进入社会后，就要买车买楼
有句话说，买车买楼后，就要结婚生子
有句话说，结婚生子后，就要育子教女
没错！现在的社会都是那样！的确，那些比我们踏进社会的朋友，什么都比我们早。也就是如此，我们父母的那些年代，在年纪轻轻就誕下了我们，也在他们正值年华时，为生活梦想打拼。但是，我只想说现今的社会“时代不同，思想不同，生活方式不同”。
如果现在的你，每当被问为什么还没另一半，几时打算结婚，打算。。。。之类的话，来个深呼吸吧，相信这一切随缘吧，上帝自有安排。有这么一句话：上帝创造万物，各按其时，有头有序，所以全交给我们的稣哥打算吧！只是timing的问题罢了！
最近在面子书看到好几个不错的几句话：
1. 最浪漫的爱情是一起跪着祷告。
2. I am single but I not desperate.
3. 習慣了得到，便忘記了感恩.
4. 结婚不是爱情的坟墓，而是新的里程碑。
5. 给自己最好的礼物：忘记；给别人最好的礼物是：原谅
其实，人，只要懂得怎么去珍惜，怎么去分辨，怎么去选择，怎么去打拼，怎么去处理，怎么去割舍，怎么去享受，不管是一个人抑或两个人，都可以过得很好。
切记，没有辛苦，怎么会有幸福？
